angry
in my mom's email last night/this morning, she asked me not to be angry with her for not telling me.
i'm not angry at her. she didn't know what was going on.
i'm angry at her sister and brother, who knew and didn't bother to tell her. what the hell is that? your mother is potentially dying (quicker than expected), and you don't bother to tell your sibs?
thus far, i've managed to avoid emailing my aunt and telling her exactly what i think of this whole mess, because i know that it will solve nothing, and will only serve to distance my immediate family more from the family as a whole. and she'll just tell me to come and take care of Gram myself.