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hi, my name is "giant tool"

(which incidentally sounds like a bad Japanese toy name.)

Giant Tool! Transform!

Ok. Maybe not. But, all that aside, apparently I've let a misunderstanding from THREE YEARS AGO (which I now cannot even find the source of) sit and stew, only to find out it was my misunderstanding, and I've let it drive a wedge between me and a friend from childhood.

Some friendships aren't easy. After years, we learn and grow and change, all differently, and we form opinions of our own, and usually, they differ quite a bit, depending on the topic. It's the rare friendship that can see beyond that and focus on the common ground. Sometimes the common ground is pretty small.

So, adding unresolved issues to the mix is not the way to go. Bring them up, argue, fight, get it over with. Agree to disagree, if that's what it takes, but move on. And then you'll have something to build on.

Yep, I'm a giant tool, apparently. But, even Nala knew that.

And on to more important things... like comic books and action figures and sci-fi television.

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Size isn't everything.

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